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Wednesday, December 8, 2010

Ramble, friendship, & Groups

I miss being around more types of people I relate too. I've always been the person who relates to all different kinds of people and I think that's one of my best traits but everyone still has their niche, I guess that's the best way to put it. The "groups" of people I associate with tend to be so diverse from each other and maybe that's why I find, finding someone I completely relate to a bit annoying.

Some of the crowds I tend to follow.... Kink without a doubt is something that's very much a part of my life. Hip hop - I love the music and lifestyle, the in depth picture created by lyricists. Tattoos - I've always loved art and tattoos for me are a great form of expression and beautiful in themselves. Athletics - I love my sports, I can't lie. Love the Steelers, Cubs and Bulls. I also enjoy playing athletics myself, it's good entertainment, exercise and I enjoy competition. Cross-dressing, it's something I've done my entire life. I do it in the kink community but also enjoy it beyond the kink community. Fashion, letting loose, and being femme is enjoyable to me.

Then I have my friends I grew up with. I'm very-very lucky to have such a good group of friends. Jamal, Andrew, Chris, Adrian, and Walter. All of which know me very well. I don't hide things, well I opened up to all of them when I was 19, 20 and they have all been great. All of them are what you would call "vanilla" but all very open minded and I love them all. They all live in Chicago and I definitely miss being around my group of friends that I've had for a long time. Maybe that's all it is.

I'm still in Ithaca, leave Friday so one more day. I'm excited to get to Philly and then to DC. I'm actually really excited for the rest of my school break. Then I may make a pitt stop in Pittsburgh to see a "friend" who in a very different way has become the person who is most close to me over the past year. I was in a long-term relationship and we split a part in September/October 2009. It took awhile to get back to "normal" and when I was back to 100% I stumbled across someone who makes me smile. So other than missing my friends in Chicago I find this person in Pittsburgh to be someone I look forward to seeing every time I do see her and someone I care about.

I know this is a bit of a ramble but I think we all have these every once in awhile. So I'm a end it on that.

Monday, December 6, 2010

Turkey, Ithaca, Travel and Kink

DECEMBER 2010 TRAVEL:
Dec. 3-9 Ithaca, New York
Dec. 10 Philly, Pennsylvania
Dec. 11-19 Washington D.C.
Dec. 20-Jan 2 Chicago

My first quarter at Ohio University ended on November 22nd. and then I went to visit my mom her husband and my grandma for Thanksgiving. My sister and her family drove into Ohio from Chicago for a couple days as well. It was fun, it was a full house. 8 of us all together and 2 kids under the age of 2. Thanksgiving dinner was fabulous and there were enough sweets to last me about 10 days. I have a huge sweet tooth for homemade cakes, cookies, brownies and my mom had made some homemade white and milk chocolate for the first time. I loved it!

Today is December 6th and I'm in Ithaca N.Y with my college friend (to be called) "Bobcat". We drove from eastern Ohio to Ithaca but also made a stop in Pittsburgh. We went out to eat at this waffle house and it was by far the best waffle house I had ever been to. It was like a church walking in with gospel music and all. I thought I had walked into the wrong place at first. I visited a kinky friend from www.fetlife.com for the first time. It was laid back and enjoyable but it was my brown sugar and banana french toast that topped things off.

Then we ran over to "The Outer Skin for the Inner You" an adult sex/kink shop. The store is huge but very outdated. I wouldn't go back. Then we met up with my friend Madame Ingrid www.supervixenbitch.com and had some coffee followed up by a stop to the "ER Room". Another sex/kink/novelty store in Pittsburgh. This place was great and I believe the owners name was Don.... I'm pretty sure. He had LOTS of rubber, especially for men. It's also a great choice if you need some of your rubber/latex fixed as he does that as well. If you live in Pittsburgh or are visiting I suggest you stop by. You can't tell from the outside but he does have some really nice things.

So, I'm in Ithaca now and it's been fun so far. We got down poured with snow yesterday. We rented a house about an hour north of Ithaca off the lake and got 12-15 inches in about 18 hours. I love snow, especially when I don't have a long drive way to shovel :) The weather says were supposed to get another 6-12 inches through Wednesday. Were visiting one of Bobcat's friends, she's a submissive girl and she's been a slave to us, primarily Bobcat over the past few days. I am mostly submissive but I can and do top on occasion.

Last night she wanted us to abuse her on webcam for some of her kinky friends so we did. My highlight was putting my favorite mouth gag on her and connecting one of my dildos to her mouth. I then face fucked my ass with her face. The positioning was a bit weird but still fun. She is very obedient but doesn't have much experience when it comes to play so she can't take much pain or even much extreme bondage. None the less we enjoyed some caning, flogging, made her squirt, clothespins, butt plugs and had earlier given her an enema. She's also been consuming 80% of Bobcat's urine over the past few days.

Oh, The Steelers also beat the Ravens in a nail biter last night! We tried to go out to a bar but got stuck in the snow so went back to the house to watch the game. Were in first place sitting at 9-3 with 4 games left in the season. Tonight is rather casual and tomorrow another friend from school who also happens to be kinky - Alex is visiting us. Just by luck he lives an hour north of where were staying and he went home for school break so he'll be by tomorrow. Not sure what we have planned. But, Friday we leave for Philly and thank you to Coral Korrupt and Lydia Rules for letting us crash at Corals for the one night were in Philly. Then to D.C. for me where I'll be filming with Lexi Sindel and lots of other fun to be had. I'll definitely be updating the "Slave party" I'm attending this Saturday at Lexi's. I'm sure I'll be abused, bruised, cut up, and lots more. I'm excited! :)