Party Hard - Work Hard

I'm looking at trying to go to DC/Baltimore sometime in Feb. A friend of mine has let me use his car most of Jan. all the way to the first week of March. Long story short he has an extra car at the moment so he told me I could use his car. So, that means I should really make a trip to DC and get some Fetish work in. I feel like my crazy-hectic life has slowed down just a bit. I'm pretty much caught up in everything but still busy.
I might be doing some tutoring for  management class that I took last year. It's a tough class about organizational behavior with a tough teacher yet he's an awesome teacher. I have him again this quarter for another class and he told me I could get paid to help out some students.

I've also have 3 interviews for an internship that I really want including discussing things with the CEO yesterday. So, we'll see if I got it or not by mid Feb. If I don't get it I'm leaning towards going to either Peru, New Zealand, or Australia for the summer to study abroad/intern abroad.
On top that, I'm doing a freelance account executive position selling advertising to local businesses for the school yearbook.

I just found out that Big K.R.I.T. is performing here at O.U. Feb. 18th. I'm so excited for this and tickets are dirt cheap because it's on campus. If you like hip hop he is a very diverse artist that is bring back passion, talent, lyricism with amazing beats to hip hop. He's from Mississippi & I am going to be at the show. Here is a link to a youtube song of his called, "As small as a giant".
  http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ak_NOJVQoY4

I've also been putting up some of my own poetry - spoken word pieces on youtube. I've posted a piece called "Chi Town Script King" that is a fun, joking piece about my friends tattoo shop and him. Then I have a piece up called "Concept of Profit" which is a great piece and I just uploaded a new one called, "Natural". Here is the link to Natural...
   Http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uiTV9Toy1ak

Check it out! So you can see some of my other talents and passions. I love to write in pretty much all forms, blogs, papers, lyrics, poetry & more.

As for kink.... It's still a bit absent in my life at the moment. I went to college to better myself and just about all my efforts of late have been directed to school, internships, and applying to jobs. As I said, I'm trying to get out to DC to shoot some femdom and maybe take a few sessions but we'll see. Hopefully, I'll get some personal play in soon as well.

I was in Chicago this past weekend for a funeral. My brother-in-laws father died so me and my mother drove to Chicago for the services. It just so happened that my best friend was throwing a surprise birthday party for his girlfriend on Friday night and all the services were over by then. So I went up to Chicago to help him set things up and party. About 25 people showed up to hotel Sofitel to say, SURPRISE and do some pre-game drinking. We have a few cases of beer, jungle juice, whiskey, rum, Malibu, wine, port - a lot more than we needed. At midnight we went to the bar/club called "Mothers" because a friend of our's DJ's and hooked everyone up with $25 wrist bands from midnight to close. More friends showed up to say happy B-day and the night was going great. I was dancing all night! I love to dance if you don't know.
Then..... it started, the craziness.

Some of our friends got into a fight and got kicked out. I have no idea how I got back to the hotel or when I left. Then next thing I remember is puking into a red plastic cup being held by others and then puking in the toilet. Only to then have security guards pull me out of the bed that I was sleeping in at 6am. I guess in between all those blackout moments the 10 of us who made it back to the hotel destroyed the hotel. But, let me say at least I was sleeping while this occurred. Shattered picture frames, art knocked off walls, wine on walls and carpet, puke on carpet, confetti & food everywhere, blood on the wall and carpet. My friend andrew accidently got his cheek cut and ended up in the hospital getting stitches and the rest of us got kicked out at 6am. Too much alcohol turned us into rock stars. We got the hotel damage bill a few days later................ $2,100!
Oh! And did I mention we originally got the room cheap because of Jamal's father and his business. Jamal's father is Muslim and assumes Jamal and his sister don't drink, well that didn't go over well especially when his sister is only 19.
It was like the movie, "The Hangover".

Anyways, here are some pictures from that crazy night. Unfortunately we don't have any pictures of what it looked like when we got kicked out, only massive hang overs.

5 days of torture

I'm still in Baltimore, one more night here then back home for school. I'm going to end up missing Monday's class as I'm going to visit my mother for a day but oh, well. Last quarter I missed the entire 1st week of school when I was stuck in Chicago an extra week.

I was planning on going back to school today but Lexi asked if I wanted some to do some more video work with her and Miss Mina Meow on Sunday so I decided to stay an extra day. So tomorrow I'm shooting with them and it will be my first time working with Mina, she's from L.A. I've never had so many marks on my body in my life, I look like a walking rainbow right now. Because of that I have a feeling they are going to want to expand my marks tomorrow, especially considering non of the marks are from them yet.

Wednesday night I did a trampling video with Jade Indica and I had never done trampling before. Personally, it's not my thing but it was on the to-do list and so I we went at it. I'm really hard to bruise and mark up in general so when I start showing marks you know you did some work on me. The day after from the trampling my left thigh and butt cheek were severely bruised and swollen.

Thursday morning I shot with Nikki Domino and Manchester for a new femdom site to be launched. We did some boot worshipping, oral strap-on "training" and some beatings on my already bruised ass and thighs. When doing the strap-on oral I had cut open my mouth and I didn't even realize it until blood came out on the dildo. I didn't know what I had cut, but I definitely did a little damage.

After that shoot Nikki and I went to go shoot another video with Lexi. I got fucked by Lexi Sindel, Nikki Domino, and Jade Indica all at the same time. For awhile I was getting fucked, giving head to another and giving the other a hand job. Lexi had bent me in some odd positions and it was just hard fucking all the way around. They all took their turns and it was hot as hell. It definitely hurt a bit, the odd positioning and hard fucking but I loved it. Then while I was getting a dildo shoved down my throat we re-cut open the cut in my mouth and I really started bleeding this time. I ended up cutting up the thing under your tongue that is attached to your tongue.

Friday: I had a BDSM session with a Dominant man. He always beats me a bit but he was determined to add to my already bruised body and leave some fresh marks. He whipped my stomach a good amount and I haven't had my stomach worked on too much really ever. I got some good whip marks on my stomach and by the time we were done playing my ass and thighs were even more bruised and definitely swollen.

Saturday: Had another session with a Dominant man and this guy was a true sadist. One of the harder players I've ever played with. He had me in a painful prediciment with handcuffs spreading my legs apart and on my tippy toes. Then my hands handcuffed behind my neck pulling my collar against my neck making it tough to breath and a wooden pole behind my head through the arms keeping my elbows up and spread. It hurt! T
Then came the leather belt and paddle and this weren't light hits, they were whacks! I actually hate paddles, it's my least favorite implement because I don't take it very well. The paddle drew blood on my ass and parts instantly created black bruises. It definitely hurts to sit down.

Now, tomorrow I'm shooting video with Lexi and Mina. I'm far past sore but at the same time I love it. You have to work for marks but there is nothing better than having long lasting marks!!!
I'll have to get a picture of what I look like when where done shooting tomorrow. I'll post it as soon as I take it.

Here's a picture after the whipping. This picture doesn't even do me justice in regards to messed up my body is. Lexi & Mini was shocked how bruised and cut I am. Anyways, here's 2 pictures.

Baltimore

I head to Baltimore/DC tomorrow. I normally rent cars from Enterprise but it turned out that all the cars are rented out until Thursday afternoon and that just doesn't work for me. All the cars are rented out because it's spring break so that put me in a tough situation. Fortunately my friend Bobcat knew a guy who was willing to let me borrow one of his cars. It's a 1997 but it runs and will get me where I need to be. Theres a plus and negative in this. The bad thing is I rather have a nicer car and it be more fuel efficient. The good thing is all I have to pay for is gas. Don't have to pay renting fees so I pocket more money.

Wednesday: Shooting with Lexi Sindel & Jade Indica
Thursday: Shooting with Reverse Imaging as well as Nikki Domino & Manchester
                 (This is an up and coming BDSM site)
Friday: Sessions
Saturday: Sessions

I might swing by Pittsburgh on my way back to see Madame Ingrid for a bit. When I get back from my trip I'll talk about my Pittsburgh weekend vacation. I also can cross 1 thing off of my kinky bucket list that I did with Madame Ingrid last weekend.

Got to finish packing and get to bed. Got a 6 hour drive tomorrow and have to get up early.

Dating & Relationships

Would I date a vanilla woman?
- Probably not and ideally I don't want to. Especially since my previous relationship was with a kinky woman I have a well rounded expectation of what I want. I'm happily single now but I'm always keeping my eyes open for potential "partners" I guess you could say. At the same time I'm someone who doesn't go out looking for anything. Whatever happens - happens.

- Recently I've been having "fun" with a vanilla girl who knows I'm kinky. She knows all about my kinky lifestyle because she met me through someone else who knew I was kinky. The problem is she says she's not kinky at all and honestly down the line I know that would cause issues. For the moment I'll enjoy what we have but I must admit that it does scare me to even have any sort of sexual relationship with someone who is vanilla because I'm as far from vanilla as one can get. I don't want to lead anyone on including myself.

- Typically, I like women older than me. I can be a dumbass sometimes but everyone can be. Overall, I tend to mesh the best with women a bit older than myself. Over the past so many months I do have a little crush on a kinky woman but I know it's just that. Sometimes people are just in different places in their lives and there is little to no chance of anything ever becoming something just based on that.
As much of an independent, strong willed person I am, I'm just as much of a teddy bear (a skinny one).

- I've always said I would never be someone who is in a relationship with a vanilla person. I see it as settling even if you think your in love with that person. I'm way past denying my kinky lifestyle and I'm not going to go off and play with someone else when I am in a relationship. So, I stay patient, enjoy being single and when the time comes the time comes.

- At least when I graduate I have the ability to live anywhere I choose. I'm not tied down anywhere and can choose where it is I want to begin my career and life.
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Travel Update: I will end up in Baltimore March 23-27. Nikki Domino & I will be shooting both video and pictures with a Maryland company that goes by Reverse Imagining. I will also be working with another model by the name of Manchester. I also have a few bottom sessions set up with my gay cliental. So after my weekend of fun to come in a few days in Pittsburgh, I'll visit my mom for a few days then to Baltimore and then back to school for Spring quarter.