tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8379496662633793219.post6842718201860578669..comments2023-06-21T01:38:25.791-04:00Comments on Bent Which Way: Transition?Anonymoushttp://www.blogger.com/profile/12206764160901349263noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8379496662633793219.post-38360021325184497602012-02-13T04:27:29.566-05:002012-02-13T04:27:29.566-05:00well if you do decide to transition you will be a ...well if you do decide to transition you will be a lovely girl/women.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8379496662633793219.post-39301698600649095412012-02-12T23:33:31.708-05:002012-02-12T23:33:31.708-05:00hello my dear,
and you have struck on the great tr...hello my dear,<br />and you have struck on the great trans question... should we or shouldn't we transition... i have been full time once for 3+yrs before... then family issues forced me to jump back into boy world... now i'm about to jump into it again, never to jump back... going thru a divorce opens your eyes... and your mind to what i have denied myself over the years... you are lucky that you are as young as you are... once i had a son it made it much harder to do this long journey... but he is grown and moved on in his life.... it is now time for me to bloom into the woman i have longed to be... good luck in your choices... and with your journey.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8379496662633793219.post-91010435628663304762012-02-10T14:29:51.241-05:002012-02-10T14:29:51.241-05:00Not that I'm an expert, but I know a little ab...Not that I'm an expert, but I know a little about this. I went to a college that had an incredibly high number of transitioning students, because the student body/community was largely very accepting and willing to respect pronouns and so forth. A decent number of my friends changed gender over the course of any given year. I know that constructing a vag is much easier than constructing a penis out of existing tissue, so you've got that going for you. <br /><br />Also, tall women exist. I'm tall, one of my best friends is 6'1", we are all over the place. Just tell nosy assholes that you played basketball in high school. I do. (And for the record, I'm a fucking biological female, but I'm tall, and have a rad jawline - when I was working at a LGBT club a few years ago, some MtF was like "OH MY GOD YOU ARE SO PASSABLE!" and I was like awesome, good to know. lolol)<br /><br />And as someone with a pretty good amount of ink, it's really not as hard as you might think to blend in with conservative crowds as a female. It's becoming a standard part of culture and it's not like you have face tattoos, so just wear long sleeves and jewelry and you'll be fine. There is pretty good tattoo cover-up makeup by KatVonD or whatever her name is too. <br /><br />DSW will have your shoes, always. You're safe there. haha<br /><br />When you make your decision, remember to keep speaking with your fans and friends if you decide to transition. I know more than a few people who have had parties, fund raisers, and the like, to help cover the cost of surgery. Since you're not bashful about it, that may be a good option for you.Yve Descloshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09060200077141856197noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-8379496662633793219.post-36152629163217009882012-02-10T03:18:53.668-05:002012-02-10T03:18:53.668-05:00I really feel for you.
For years, I have known th...I really feel for you.<br /><br />For years, I have known that I was born in the wrong body but I thought that I was mentally sick! <br /><br />So to counteract my constant need to crossdress, I threw myself into being a boy and then a man.<br /><br />It's only in the last year or two that I've finally come to accept this...but here's my stumbling block, I'm 40, I have a long-term partner and I have two kids.<br /><br />If I could change my sex overnight I would do so in a flash, but I can no longer do that, I have to think of my family.<br /><br />But that doesn't mean that I will deny myself the pleasure anymore of cross-dressing nor will I stop myself from wearing female clothes, even when I am meant to be a man.<br /><br />You must do what is right for you, but please don't let yourself look back on your life with regrets...as I do!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com